ppl who are lost

i got a fren or rather colleague who is feeling miserable recently.

well, heard her and i felt really sorry for her.she is a lost sheep. Lost her faith and direction in life momentarily.

The last time i felt that, i almost committed suicide. Thank God, He told me that He loved me first. Praise the Lord!!!

she had dinner with her bf and one of his frens last nite and heard a comment fr his fren. The guy told her apparently that men prefer women who play hard to get. she shocked and puzzled why he told her this.

i believe that besides love and committement, its take MORE for a couple to stayhappily together. It is crucial to be able to forsee a future with your loved one at the moment before wedding bells can be rang. I dont believe in wasting time on a partner who has a different belief and a lifesytle.

it is indeed miserable for a person who is faithfully waiting for her partner to change into the one whom she wants. my suggestion to her was to get a firm stand and move on with her life instead of wasting it away with a partner who will lead her nowhere.

its up to her.. unless she makes a decision, she will continue to stay miserable