i do...

why do couples come tog?

for similar interests, bad habits etc?

BUT when do they realised that they are actually not meant to be? for a gal with 3 bfs, how wld she know who among the 3 can give her a blissful marriage? no1 man can be handsome and rich, no2 man can be similar but tog with all the virtues & no3 man can have nothing. If thats the case, who among the 3 shld the gal wed?

its ez to say i do at the ceremony but it may costs a lifetime to rectify that "i do". And when in the marriage will the couples find each other unsuitable? some found out in 1 mth, some 1 yr and some even 10 yrs.

do couples have to come from the same bkground to shares happiness and woes tog or diff bkground to appreciate each other more.

I read in 1 Cor 13:4-7:- love is patient and kind....

I believed that every marriage is made in heaven. BUT what if we go against God's plan??? does that mean that the couple will not have everlasting blissful marriage?

i m not patient towards my spouse, neither am i any described in the above. In that case, if there TRUE love? i m pondering... am i afraid of being left on the shelf like all gals do that i just take whatever who comes???? or am i meant to be single? i have these burning qns in my head.

for a marriage of 1o yrs, is there everlasting love? or it is just a committement? if it is just a committement, then it goes to prove that there is no everlasting love.

thus, it also shows that ONLY God has everlasting love for us. can we His creations do that too?