inlaws

i have inlaws just like most of us here.

my inlaws are nice ppl of cos.... just a lil more concerend abt my hubby and me like all other inlaws.

wat do i expect fr my inlaws? in actual fact, (i hope my hus doesnt read this), i hope they leave me and him alone. Leaving us alone doesnt mean that we are forsaking them but it just simply mean that they leave decisions for us to make. Afterall, we are already in our twenties and should be able to accept any repercussions for any decision which we make.

sadly, it can be due just to a certain event, like a wedding that can turn an inlaws r/s sour. my advice for a wedding is just to make your "own" decisions cos its UR wedding not theirs. God is fair, they have gone thru theirs.

i have got a fren who is currently in the midst of preparing her wedding. Well, from the looks of it, she is in the exact same postion as i was a year plus ago.

church la, dinner la and even the photo studio. Haha, i was telling her, this is only the BEGINNING cos there are more to come.

i was extremely stressed out during my own wedding cos i had to take it so much "concerns" from my inlaws. Thus, i promise myself that i will never interfer with my child's wedding next time. God is fair, i had mine and its my child's turn.

like my fren, this is only the BEGINNING, i m prepared for more concerns from my inlaws when the baby is out.

BUT i definately want to name my own child. Nobody is going to take this prerogative away from me.

i guess the best part of my inlaw r/s is that i actually dreamt of my fil last nite... gosh, i dreamt that my fil tried to interfer in where i was going for my shopping :O

thank God its only a nightmare. but on a neutral basis, just like i find it hard to get along with them, i am sure that theya re finding me weird and difficult as well.

amazing grace is what i need most now.